M. "Security is mostly a superstition."

Thu, 18 Aug 2011 12:37:55 -0500

“Security is mostly a superstition.”

- Helen Keller

the lack of posting

Thu, 18 Aug 2011 05:22:30 -0500

on my behalf is so bad. i apologize. thank you to my followers who have remained through this process. i’ll be on this blog more in the future.

xoxo,

MLG.

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Thu, 18 Aug 2011 05:21:36 -0500

"Look inside yourself for the answers – you’re the only one who knows what’s best for you."

Sat, 16 Jul 2011 15:40:00 -0500

“Look inside yourself for the answers – you’re the only one who knows what’s best for you.”

- Unknown

our own kind.

Thu, 14 Jul 2011 03:50:25 -0500

we each have a distinctive character, positive habit, and personality for a reason. you may have not found “you” yet - but it’s coming in the midst of your growth. not everyone you encounter sees it. only the special do. perception isn’t everything but merely an idea. know that your “kind” is unique and don’t let anyone else state otherwise.

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Tue, 12 Jul 2011 17:29:48 -0500

lace is so intimate. lately fashion has been swinging to make...

Tue, 12 Jul 2011 02:12:02 -0500

lace is so intimate. lately fashion has been swinging to make lace not as sexual which i like. i think it’s one of my favorite fabrics.

be real with me.

Tue, 12 Jul 2011 02:04:44 -0500

if you don’t like me, don’t pretend like you do.
if you don’t having feelings for me, don’t lead me on to think so.
if you don’t want to be friends with me, then leave me alone.

out with the old, in with the new.

Sun, 10 Jul 2011 14:02:59 -0500

recently, i’ve decided to become celibate. i’ve been off & on with the same guy for over a year but i’m over this casual sex. my personal decision to do this has come from the condition in which my relationship is now in. after this long, i’m just tired. i don’t think i’m going to give up but i’m just ready to concentrate on me for awhile and with that comes making sacrifices. i need a break from being tied down to someone. i’ve always had a boyfriend and at this point i’m just beyond the titles and what not. i’d rather mingle, but not just let him go either. i may have a few phases but that’s it. i’ve always been controlled while i was with someone and that’s not acceptable. like whoever the “he” may be at that given time, it’s like he’s my only friend and yea, part of that is my fault but the fact of the matter now is that i’m exhausted. then sex keeps emotional baggage in the picture. i can’t anymore. this attachment is unhealthy and when it starts to be the foundation of the relationship, that’s a major issue.

when the past calls, send it to the voicemail, chances are, it has nothing new to say.

Sat, 09 Jul 2011 12:29:16 -0500

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Fri, 08 Jul 2011 18:59:11 -0500

five ways to build self-confidence.

Fri, 08 Jul 2011 12:53:34 -0500

❀ never compare yourself to somebody else.
❀ never base your own feelings on what somebody else says about you.
❀ compliment other people.
❀ embrace your flaws.
❀ do things that make you happy.

"Everybody is always tugging at you. They’d all like a sort of chunk out of you. I don’t..."

Fri, 08 Jul 2011 02:16:44 -0500

“Everybody is always tugging at you. They’d all like a sort of chunk out of you. I don’t think they realize it, but you do want to stay intact and on two feet.””

- Marilyn Monroe

changing my style.

Fri, 08 Jul 2011 01:56:01 -0500

i think i want to change my style to like a bohemian type. i’ve recently been in love with crop tops and unusual looking shoes. jeffrey campbell has plenty that i’m fond of thanks to elitekiara. her little collage was exquisite although she put it on private. i’ve become drawn to tribal looking clothing and big jewelry and those kinds of colors, like cream, gold, brown, black and burnt orangish. y’know? i also want to cop more pairs of toms. they’re like walking on the clouds literally. they go with anything and i can be mix match without even worrying if it looks right. now all i need is the bank account to do it.

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Thu, 07 Jul 2011 18:00:59 -0500

officially employed.

Wed, 06 Jul 2011 17:48:18 -0500

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Tue, 05 Jul 2011 03:06:36 -0500

"Chivalry is not dead."

Tue, 05 Jul 2011 02:55:00 -0500

“Chivalry is not dead.”

- Unknown

dear you,

Tue, 05 Jul 2011 02:54:00 -0500

opening the door for me, letting me win and offering to pay for me are all things that in my book get two thumbs up.

you, you, you. you do it all. you make me smile without even trying. you do something to me just at the sight of your face & it’s weird because you came like that in the package - it just took me a while to see. it’s always been there. you look at me like i’m not just any regular girl and you say all the right words and it’s not just to fill my ear. it’s because you mean it. i’ve grown very fond of you and it all happened so fast. we have a love hate relationship, but for some reason it’s not worth letting go. i’m holding on b’cos it’s worth it and i see that. you make my heart blush in so many ways. i wonder have you treated every girl like this or am i just special? i get happy when we text or talk on the phone. when i see you it never gets old. you’re spontaneity excites me. you’ve been there for me when i needed someone the most and not because you had to but ‘cause you wanted to be. you pay me compliments with the most subliminal gestures. i’m comfortable with you. i’m bipolar too. one moment i’m this then i’m that but you soak it all in. you absorb it and deal with it the best you know how. you rarely apologize but when you do, it makes me warm inside. you’re everything nobody else has been, thank you.

what is one of your biggest fears?

Mon, 04 Jul 2011 20:29:46 -0500

i’m absolutely terrified of death and what comes after. i know we all die but it scares me not knowing what will come next. plus it gives me chills thinking about how i will die.